It is quite a long time I keep on observing myself - The way I talk, my gesture, my politeness, my flexibility, etc.... I finally found out that I am one who is hard to say "No" - The weakness I have in me......
When people try to ask me for outing, I will usually oblige, no matter how busy I am. Still, my frens around don't notice that I actually sacrifice my time, my homework, my phone calls, and even, my sleep juz for the outing. Sometimes, they don't appreciate what I actually sacrifice, what they see is my presence, and that's it~ At the end of the day, nobody will suffer with me by helping me with homework and studies....
Sometimes, even though I go out with them, they are not in good mood and not happy throughout the outing. >.< I can't figure this out... ...
I am thinking when can I learn to say no~ Would I hurt their feelings by doing so?
I am flexible, but juz because I am not around during weekend, don't call me Steve. (Lame~)
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